Dating : Decent looking but literally can’t match with anyone on tinder?
23M. Idk what to do. I’ve literally tried everything :/. Different pictures, bios, paid version and I can’t match with anyone I like. Even if I lower my expectations I still can’t get anyone to meet up with me. I feel so defeated. I firmly believe I am pretty decent looking. Very brutally honest people tell me I’m 8/10. I’m 6’2”. Can have a conversation with a brick.
But this has had me start second guessing myself. Maybe I’m not very good looking? Idk.
Starting to think being mixed ethnicity is the cause in a town predominantly white. Any advice at all would be appreciated…
Bro gtfo tinder it’s cancer. It can make you feel low and I’d say use bumble or hinge. My last 2 relationships were from bumble so I’d say go there
Tinder sucks ass. It’s just the nature of online dating. Most of the time people are just mindlessly swiping right and matching with everyone with no intentions of ever talking to anyone. It’s sort of an ego boost when they see the match button light up. But in my experience I’ve gotten a lot of good results from deleting my profile every month or so and restarting anew. It’s also better to just try to be honest and clever with your opening message, maybe say something about their picture or bio, instead of using puns, ‘hey,’ or ‘hi.’
Tinder is like 8/10 times trashy, seldom (as in only once) have I seen relationships work out for anything longer than a year and that couple are just stoner trash sooooo.
Keep in mind guys outnumber girls on apps, especially tinder.
If you’re an 8/10, then finding people who’d be flattered to talk to you in the real world shouldn’t be hard if you’re brave and put yourself out there
I know a good amount of white girls who are dating mixed guys so don’t worry.
Also if you’ve restarted your account within a short amount of time with better pictures then there’s a chance it’s done basically nothing for you because your old data is probably still registered. It’s stupid I know.