Dating : Didn’t go for kiss on first date and want to die
Basically I’m 25 and not experience with girls at all – like not kissed or anything due to severe anxiety most of my life.
Finally got better and got a date with this girl from work who I really like. I could fully feel like she wanted me to take the lead but me being my weak scared self couldn’t do it.
I just dont know what to do. I really like her and don’t want to fuck it but don’t know how to go about it?
2nd date and take the lead this time.
I don’t think you messed up. I never kiss on the first date. It feels weird and rushed to me. Even if I don’t know how the girl is feeling, I’ll at the very least wait until the second.
It’s really not necessary to kiss on the first date and for most of the girls its a red flag for the first date just make Sure for the next time that you break the touch barrier like holding her hands aur tapping onto her shoulder to say something and get ger attention and let everything happen at it’s natural pace
My go to trick… When you go for the hug… Give them a warm, tight hug… Slowly pull away… Make eye contact before letting go… You’ll know if she wants to kiss
Best thing you can start doing is developing a carefree attitude..relax..try some Phenibut..find a masculine role model…stop timid action and indecision in your everyday actions. When you go in for a hug, then ask her if she likes kisses-so this leaves out the awkward timing moment and you look like a direct man of action
I’m 24f and dont like kissing on the first date, don’t stress over it. You’ll have other chances
My boyfriend kissed me on the second date after asking if he could kiss me and I confirmed it was okay. Which was one of the things I liked with my boyfriend while it was the early stages of dating.
So go for a second date and ask her before you go for a kiss. You can ask when you feel the moment to go for a kiss. That way she can back away or accept it. There no rule you have to kiss on the first date.
Don’t worry! Take the time you need! It’ll happen
if you talk over the phone just be upfront and be like « ugh I should have kissed you »