Dating : Do most girls try to try to take as long to respond as you do text?
Had a really nice, romantic date with this girl the other night-we hung out for two days at her place, she was really cool, I had a great time + she seemed into it. She also sent me a selfie just a few hours after I left her place, which I took as a good sign. Stupidly, forgot to respond for 24 hours and now it’s been hours since I sent my response and she hasn’t replied so I’m sorting of anxious now, even though I know it’s hypocritical lol.
My question is, do most girls try to reply at the same time amount of time someone is taking to text them (i.e. if you take a day, they’ll take about a day)? Wonder how long I should wait on this girl. And feel bad for taking so long in the first place.
She’s busy, you’re busy, live your life man. Stop waiting around for her response like some mental patient.
Most women purposely make a guy wait on responses because they want to see how he breaks down and if he gets angry for her not texting back. Then she’ll disappear. Your game is weak son.
As a female…I’ve done this. I know it’s dumb, but it’s a bruised ego and feeling like the person lost interest because they took so long to reply. My advice is communicate and be open with her about it. Give her assurance that you’re still into her. Communication goes a long way.
Not everyone.. but i think shes trying to play it cool. You took 24hrs to reply to her selfie, she probably felt the same way you do now… so her replying back to your response right away would make her feel like shes desperate. Chill and give it time. Dont lose contact though…
In my experience, if you take a long time to text, then you’ll attract those who also take a long time to text. Similarly, if you are quick to text, then you’ll attract those who are also quick to text. Just because they reply slowly doesn’t mean they don’t like you. And just because they reply quickly doesn’t mean they like you.
So move the focus of your passion to yourself, your goals, and your purpose, and she’ll come chasing if she likes you!
They take longer and a lot of them will just stop texting you at all with no reason why
no honestly that sounds manipulative