Dating : Do you care if your girl/boyfriends goes on 1-on-1 dinners with the opposite sex?
My new girlfriend does this on the regular and I’m jealous but won’t say anything.
Is it fine for this to be a regular thing?
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My new girlfriend does this on the regular and I’m jealous but won’t say anything.
Is it fine for this to be a regular thing?
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Listen to your instincts. Do you trust her? If you fo, it shouldn’t be a problem. If not, the problem isn’t the dinners.
She not your girlfriend if she’s going on dates with other people. Which is what these dinners are.
Why would you ask others how you should feel about a situation,
Red flag.
Talk with her.
Dump her if she is uncooperative.
It all depends on trust and communication. If it’s one person they’re close to and that you know, it’s fine. If it’s multiple people you don’t know then it’s concerning.
It’s never bothered me. My last bf has several friends that are women. They visit him, he visits them and they sleep over at each other’s houses when they travel. I never doubted that it was ever anything other then platonic and he never gave me a reason to not trust him.
I’d say it depends on their history. If they are life long friends or family, there is no real problem. If they are an ex or a former fwb, definitely a problem. But the main thing is communication; try bringing it up with your girlfriend and see how she reacts. Does she avoid telling you anything about the other person? Does she tell you when she is going out but leaving out the details for these 1 on 1s? See what she says and most importantly; Trust. Your. Gut.
Lol you guys and girls need more trust.
If you dont trust your partner enough to go and get food with someone else…. regardless of their gender, then you shouldnt be dating them
Let her and remember:
ITS JUST YOUR TURN
No. I don’t find that appropriate.
To each their own but there is no way in hell I would be ok with that.
My parrents told me they used to have a rule that mom would never be alone with a guy and dad would never be alone with a girl, I thought it was genius. Where do you get into bar fights, bars. When you hang around drug users what are you likely to start doing, drugs. Our environment doesn’t force us to do anything, but it does make certain behaviors easier and more tempting, the best way to stay out of trouble is to avoid situations where that trouble can arise. Don’t want your SO to cheat don’t let them hang out around people of the opposite sex alone.
I know this post is going to get some hate, and I realize you can’t force your SO to do or not do something but you can just tell them what you are and arent comfortable with and if they can’t deal with it, find a new partner who can. My longest lasting relationship was when we both agreed to that rule and it worked. Then I’ve dated a girl who had no intention of following it, our relationship was very short, pretty sure she cheated on me, never found out for certain but I know the guy she dated next, they got engaged and she cheated on him.