Dating : Does anyone court anymore or am I missing something?
I’ve been on dates with guys I’ve met irl and from old and to me it seems like the bar is set so low nowadays. When I met my ex in 2012 we went on multiple dates, got to know each other and built a friendship before relationship.
Fast forward to now and guys are expecting me to “come over and chill” on the second date or even after the first date. First of all, no. Secondly, where’s the effort? One date does not get you vetted and I wonder what type of guys are inviting females over so quick. I’m sure I already know the answer to that question but still wtf.