Dating : Does being a doctor increase your dateability?
All other things considered, does being a doctor increase your dateability? Talking about males seeking females.
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All other things considered, does being a doctor increase your dateability? Talking about males seeking females.
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I think it depends on who you’re asking. There is of course absolutely nothing wrong with being a doctor and I’m sure it’s quite attractive to most. It’s a helping profession, provides a great income, stability, shows hard work, dedication etc. These are definitely qualities most women and people in general are looking for in a partner. But this isn’t everything.
Being a doctor can also mean having a large amount of debt, working extremely long hours, always being on call, and rarely having time for family and friends. Not to mention, some doctors have absolutely no bedside manner and are rude to the clinical staff they work with.
As a healthcare worker and an aspiring PA, I actually prefer to date someone who is not in my field so we can strike a good balance. If I could find a nice teacher to date — sold lol. So in short, there is nothing ‘wrong’ with being a doctor, in fact there are a lot of positives, however it can’t be all a person has to offer. An amazing personality, boundaries, making time for your partner, great values, those things are much more attractive.
I’ve seen your posts a few times so I’m curious: have you found that it’s increased your dateability?
For someone very superficial or someone who is in the medical profession and looking for someone who understands them sure, probably.
A good career only makes up for lack of personality for so long.
Source; experience
I reckon right now it would. In the uk it’s very hard to get a face to face appointment with a doctor, my grandma been trying for months. So imagine dating someone who can just give your family a quick check over and put your mind at rest so you don’t have to worry that they can’t get an appointment.
My ex is a resident and she said she will not date other doctors. I’ve also dated a nurse and she said the same thing.
Most women I talk to want a guy with a 6 figure salary.
Anytime I’ve done OLD, the profession wasn’t disclosed right away. Which I prefer. I have a thing for cops and God knows I need to focus on personality more than what they do for a living lol.
I can see some people gravitating to a doctor bc of the perceived advantages with respect to income and future potential.
Im a spec Ed teacher and it really doesn’t hold the same weight lol. Doctors are a different story.
30 m doctor here. Im matching with 10s almost daily. I had a video date last night with a 10. Video date tonight with another 10. I get about 3-7 likes per day on fb dating. Only app im using. I think I’d be a bit overwhelmed using anymore.
Not sure if its looks or the doctor stuff. But I think I’m happy with results a month into OLD. About 9 dates now (many were just video dates). A few times the girl paid on the first date too. (Not complaining)
If you’re a doctor and I’m just casually swiping or having a night out it’s definitely more attractive. But when it comes down to things the commitment to being a doctor (long hours, if you’re still in debt, weird schedules) might be too unattractive to date.
Probably for the general population of females, yes. As a nurse, definitely not. A man who writes that he is a doctor in his online profile will have to have some major other positives to outweigh that and not get the hard left from me.
Yes, being a doctor absolutely helps. When I entered residency, my options increased 10 fold. Now, I can line up 3 dates a week with fairly attractive, educated women. Before, I’d be lucky for 1 every few months.
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Being a doctor does bring more money, and with money, it can bring more opportunities so maybe. Just dont be blend
If you’re not tall and white, then a good career like doctor is the only way to get married. Just look at all the Asian and Indian guys out there, they’re busting their ass off in school because they know it’s their only chance.
No. I learned that in 2021, even the best paying jobs don’t satisfy SOs. Would you date someone who is always busy and never has time for you and your children? Hell no. I know I wouldn’t. The only reason I see this working out if the doctor SO is planning to retired really early and has a plan.
I always think about pilots and truck drivers who have family and they rarely seem them including their SOs. Not including the extensive working hours and other problems.
Yes to some extent. I like to look for a partner with a relatively stable income, or who is on a positive path. But ultimately personality is what makes or breaks my attraction to someone