Dating : Does this make me a bad person?
So I met a girl online. We are both in our early 20s. We talked through text for 3 weeks and went out on two dates. We kissed at the end of the second date but she said she will be gone for 2 months. She left and we didn’t really address what we are…(But she’s coming back in 2 months.)
Recently, another girl and I started talking. She asked me to meet her this Saturday. Should I go or not?
Ladies, would you be pissed if you were the first girl in this situation and the guy you kissed on the 2nd date “met up” with another?
You owe absolutely nothing to a girl/man that you went on one date with ONE TIME. People need to get a grip. Look at it this way, she just went on a date with you and flew off for two months leaving you on side lines. There is your answer.
You’re not exclusive yet so I don’t see the issue. When dating it’s normal to see multiple people at first.
No issue at all, dating does not mean relationship, broaden your choices. Dating does not mean you guys vibe with each other or share the same values etc, it’s just a date.
The new girl you are going on a date with is seeing other people too. Very normal.
No, I wouldn’t be pissed. Until we agree to be exclusive I assume he’s dating other people.
I say that you have the right to go on another date with a girl. Y’all aren’t exclusive and she hasn’t specifically stated that she wanted to be. I’d let her know, though. And maybe ask if she’s still interested in seeing you. I respect honesty even if it hurts my feelings. She should give you a good idea on how badly she wants to try and pursue things with you after that, though. Best of luck.
You could at least tell the girl you’re seeing someone else.