Dating : Dream girl dumped me for someone else
So I spent the last three months dating someone who was basically my dream girl. The amount of shared Interests we had was crazy, that included bedroom stuff as well. The chemistry was totally electric, in all my relationships and time dating, I’ve never experienced anything like it. She was giving out the affection too, planning romantic trips away, sending me texts about how glad she was we met. Then she ended things by text super abruptly. I pushed for closure and she admitted that she was seeing someone else. Apparently the dude was a ‘mind reader’ who always knew how she was really feeling.
I dunno how to deal with this, everything felt so amazing. Normally I’m quite a pessimist/nihilist, but while I was seeing her I really started to buy into the whole soulmate thing, I was is smitten with her, and she seemed to be super into it as well. I don’t think I wanna be in another relationship until I can recapture this feeling. Anyone have any similar experiences? Did you ever find someone you felt the same about?
Obviously she was good but had issues as well and didn’t think you were as good. Girls come and go you’ll find another.
On the plus side, you now KNOW what you want in a relationship!
I’m sorry, for your loss. I’ve never had these feelings, well that’s not true. But I think it’s really difficult to find someone who is on your level, or who connects to you very affectionately. I think it’s wise to not date a lot of people, because if you really are seeking your soulmate perhaps you need to work on yourself. So that when you find someone else, you’ll know that person is the one. Also I am not saying you were the issue, i’m just saying just find someone who you think will do you right in the long run. I know it’s hard, I’m a female that doesn’t trust people either. Sadly I’m very cynical after all the years I’ve lived, but I believe you and I could find someone who is great and loving. I hope you the best, have a good one.
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I thought I met someone who was into all the same things as I was, and whom I thought was kinda into me too. Turns out it wasn’t the case. I honestly thought I won’t ever meet anyone else (like that) ever again. I thought wrong. You might find someone else who attracts you in a different way, you never know who you might meet. All the best buddy, chin up.
We feel you brother, I recommend trying to focus on yourself for a bit, keeping busy finding a new hobby, turning the hurt and anger into something positive, It is not easy but worth a shot
add value to yourself.