Dating : Fell in love with an amazing girl.
So, I went on holiday with a group of 16 (previously unknown) people. Turns out that it was formed by 5 men and 11 hot girls between 24 and 38 yrs old.
I’m M32 and I really fell in love with this girl F32, and also told her about my feelings. She said that she has so many thoughts in her head and don’t mind about her (I know, it’s a NO).
First problem: she doesn’t want to date me probably.
Second problem: she lives more than 250km away from me, so I can only text her.
Third problem: her friend (F34) seemed really interested in me and asked to come over her place at least twice.
Fourth problem: I can’t lie.
Fifth problem: first girls is still thinking about her cocaine addict ex.
Sixth problem: I am addicted to her smile and laugh.
In my opinion, third problem is the one you should concentrate on.
A bird in the hand is better than a bird in the bush. You have someone who is interested in you and apparently, lives near you. As long as you are not totally turned off by her, imo, giving her a chance is better than focusing on a person who has pretty much rejected your interest and you even know she is not over her ex. Meaning that even if you do get together for a short time, there may come a time when she tells you, she’s not ready to be in a relationship yet.
> I really fell in love with this girl F32, and also told her about my feelings.
That’s your first problem.
Fuark, this is tough situation. I would prolly think about her for 4 years+ knowing I would never get her.