Dating : Felt mad chemistry with a guy, he showed what felt like red flags, cut him off before first date.
I will try to keep it short, I promise.
Basically, I was talking to a guy I met on Tinder, and I felt a lot of chemistry. I was really feeling it, until I started seeing small red-flags that led to me cutting communication with him.
Those red flags were:
– Saying that, as long as I didn’t wear a lot of make up, I was good (Out of nowhere, no context).
– Dismissing social sciences, and dismissing my arguments.
– Asking me to share personal information so « he could know if he had to run ».
– Saying that using the expresion « Getting to know someone », was me trying to hide the fact I had dated/had sex with someone in the past.
He also suggested meeting up when he had free time, but not as in an « exchange ». More like « I’m free this day, we could do something », and assuming I would be completely okay with it, and insisting even if I said I couldn’t really make it that day (I was freaking graduating from university that day!!).
I feel a bit guilty because, he was really funny, and he didn’t seem ill-intentioned. But his comments struck to me as weird, and I couldn’t get over the accusation of « trying to hide something », after being asked to share private stuff. He apologized later, but I honestly think it was just because I stopped talking to him.
Did I do the right thing?