Dating : He is not chasing me, but allowing me to chase?
What does it mean if a guy is not actively chasing me, but is responding when I am pursuing? Is this a bad sign? I tried a few times to not make an effort (for example not text him first) and he will not text me first. But when I pursue him, initiate the flirting with him, he seems interested and responds/asks me out. But it’s draining because I feel like it’s me who has to get his attention first.