Dating : He made a joke about my sister being ugly.. Am I overreacting?
We’ve been on 5 dates now. We’re in our late 20s.
We had a good tone and he decided to call me for a few minutes tonight. I hate phone calls so I didn’t say much. He was nervous and cracked a joke about « figuring out he was gay after he saw my sister ».
My siblings are the most important things to me in this world. I seriously reacted with disgust. I thought I misheard him at first, but he confirmed the joke in chat after when I asked about it.
I knew he tends to crack a few « bad » jokes, but this one was just so idiotic to me.
He specified that it was just a really bad joke and that of course he didn’t mean anything by it. He said sorry.
I’m almost unsure if I can forgive the joke tbh. Am I overreacting?