Dating : Help
So there this guy at work who is younger than me, who we’ve been like flirting but I thought it was all a joke, apparently he does want to date me, but I am conflicted, hes is way younger than me, but he treats me super nice and we have talked a couple of time outside of work and the conversations are good, the thing is I dont know if he want to just sleep with me or date date me, I will not sleep with him just for fun cause they guys always talk avout that kind of stuff and I know he is gonna tell everybody at work about it and I dont want that. He asked me out and I dont know what to say cause I think is part of a bet…..and I dont know yet, I would hate to find out that he indeed was using me just to win a bet and that I gave him a chance 🙃
Well, uh we can’t really say anything unless you give us the ages, ma’am.
if you’re seriously interested in this guy then go ahead and go on a date, regardless if it was a dare, as long as he’s above the legal limit in whichever country you happen to be in. just don’t have sex with him until you’re confident that he’s there for a relationship.
Why do you think it’s a bet? I don’t personally follow this but are you two in each others “league”?
Sounds like this work environment is toxic af.