Dating : He’s dating a beautiful model now
I feel like crap because the guy who treated me so terribly is now dating a beautiful, tall woman who could be a model, and it’s making me realize how I didn’t meet his standard of beauty. What are some ways to really get over this? I’m struggling
I realised guys like my ex (and prolly your ex too) will be unhappy either way. They could date the smartest, prettiest girl there is and still treat her like trash after awhile.
It’s not about you, it’s about him
That’s not true. If you didn’t meet his standard of beauty he wouldn’t have hungout with you at all.
You don’t know her personality, maybe she’s just as shallow as him so they are a good fit. Or maybe she is naive and hasn’t figured out he’s a douche yet.
When stuff like this has happened to me, i’ve tried to just look at it as i’m glad i’m not the one he is treating like that anymore.
Move on to someone better than him!
…. mmmm juyst curious. Would him dating someone uglier make you feel better about yourself ?
Lets summarize this situation.
He’s abusive towards you, you guys broke it up, and you still want him.
You’re just masquerading how much you want him by telling other people of how much better the other girl is.
Thats how I see it. Two options. Ignore him and find another guy who suits you, he will in that case feel terribly or worst case feel like you don’t care(which is good) or if you can’t get over it do things that keeps you busy and remove everything that has to do with him.
Out of curiosity, if he treated you terribly how come he got a chance with this other girl ?
Hope everything will be okey with you
You are worrying more about his happiness than yours. That’s why you feel like crap.
He’s gone. Who cares whether he is dating a super model or a dog. He’s gone and you’re still trying to qualify for his affection. That’s not healthy. Move on and do things that make you happy.
Goid luck. Take care.
Any time a relationship ends, the goal is to upgrade for the next one. All you can do is get yourself an upgrade as well.
If he treated you terribly, he could be treating her terribly (or she might be treating him terribly). Her physical beauty has nothing to do with his shitty behavior.
Take comfort in knowing that the only 10/10 I ever dated was the worst relationship I ever had.
The best was a solid 7/10 who was funny as shit and appreciated me.
Sooo, just know that odds are he’s gonna be miserable.
– Cut off contacts with him
– Block him on socials
– Don’t stalk
– Meet new people, make new friendships
– Have fun
– Spend time with friends
Sooner or later you’ll crush on someone else AND
MAGIC
You’ll find out you don’t care about your ex and whoever the hell he’s dating anymore.
And you will wonder « why did that woman make me feel so insecure, she isn’t even that great. Was I blind? »
Trust me, right now your brain sees all of her qualities and magnifies them just because you subconsciously feel like « she won » and you lost
HA! found the femcel, maybe you just need to be more confident