Dating : How do you break up with a woman?
I have been dating this woman for 7 months. I don’t want to be with her anymore because I’m not attracted to her physically. I actually see sleeping together as a chore, and I often can’t even finish. I have never broken up with a woman before, and though I’m unhappy with how things are, I can’t bring myself to breakup. She is nice. She never did anything wrong. I just feel like an asshole for wanting to break up. And, I know she is very sensitive about breakups, and she has mentioned long term things like meeting parents, living together…How do I bring myself to break up with her?
Sit her down (preferably next time you meet her) and say you don’t think it’s going to work out. If she ask why, say that you don’t feel the same for her as she might feel for you. It’s best to not mention not being physical attracted to her, since girls can be pretty sensitive when it comes to that and I guess you don’t want to hurt her feelings like that.
Literally tell her what you just told us, but don’t mention the looks. She will be comforted knowing that you feel like shit for having to do this, but it’s better than both of you being unhappy but together. She will cry, and maybe lash out, if it gets too violent you can just leave, but maybe a slap on the shoulder or something is foreseeable.
Be straight up and honest – tell her the attraction is gone and you need it.
Tell her “It’s not you, it’s me.” You could also say she “deserves someone better.”
Tell her you hate her kids.
When you die.