Dating : Is it ok that I ghosted my ex?
I think it’s been 3 weeks since I ghosted my ex girlfriend. I wanted to talk it through with her, explain things to her and hear her point of view, but it felt completely impossible.
My Ex Girlfriend very strongly represents and has traits of what’s known as a Sociopath. From causes to behaviour to lifestyle. I just felt like I was in a corner, when I asked her about things that I felt uncomfortable or confused about, I would approached her in what I felt was a very kind, warm and non judgemental manner. At first I would be met with blanket statements like « Do you want to be with me or not? ». Eventually it would become excuses, confusion and « I don’t know » followed by constant apologies that never lead to anything.
I felt that if I truly told her how I feel she wouldn’t be able to comprehend or reply in a healthy manner. I feel like she would tell me I’m a selfish asshole, try to convince me I’m wrong and put the blame on me.
I feel so horrible for ghosting her and I can’t help but feel I should at least send her a letter ending things. I can’t help but wonder if maybe I am wrong, maybe I am crazy? It’s all so confusing and upsetting.
Thankyou in advance for reading this. It’s much appreciated