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Dating : How to feel about this?

Dating : How to feel about this?


Seeing this woman for a month. Between 3 group meetups and 4 dates it’s been 7 times. Things have been completely smooth up until now and we both really seem to like each other. I’m honestly starting to catch feelings and know my judgement is probably a bit impaired.

Last week I ask to see her this Tuesday. She agrees.

On Sunday morning she texts and asks if I’m free Sunday night as she would like to come over. I agree. Then she later texts and says she’s not feeling good emotionally as some private stuff went down and doesn’t think she would be good company and cancels on me.

I see her Tuesday as planned. We have a wonderful time together as we always do. She asks what I’m doing tommorow (Wednesday) as she wants to see me again. I agree.

The next day she cancels on me again saying she forgot she had prior plans, and asks if we can do Thursday instead. I’m irritated, but I agree.

Today (Thursday) she cancels on me yet again saying she needs pick up a shift to make some extra money. Making it 3 cancelations in just 5 days.

On the one hand, had we only seen each other Tuesday as planned I would have been completely fine and things would have carried on as normal. On the other she asked me out and canceled on me 3 times in a very short window of days and now I’m upset and feeling like maybe she’s just not that into me and I should pull back.

She also has already asked me to a game night with her friends on Sat (which I’m busy and can’t make) and to stay the night at my place next Tuesday again.

The constant asking me out this week makes me feel like she’s really into me. The frequent cancelations make me feel like she’s not.

Should I be upset? How does Reddit think she feels about me? How should I handle her flakiness?

What do you think?

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  1. Ask her, « Is everything okay? » And if she says, « Yeah, why? » Then that’s your cue to ask her why she has been making plans and then cancelling.

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