Dating : How to meet people??
I’m sure this has been talked about
Maybe wrong sub? Idk
How do you do this??? Meet people?? Attract. Start conversation.. And finally date.
Like. I want to talk to girls man, I really do. Just no clue how. I always think I’ll just walk up to whoever I find attractive and say hey, what’s your name, can I get yo numba or something but.. So far I haven’t hah. I guess cause it just never quite feels right?? Idk. I try and make eye contact and whatever but like most of the time I’m just walking or driving by. Like man. I’m so sick of feeling trapped in a box. Quarantined. Culture based on individualism. Maybe I’m just poorly socialized. I feel like I don’t really have friends and I bug people and they’re not typically interested. I try on apps like tinder.. I’m strictly not into hookups and I know I’m not ready for a relationship. I just want friends and dates. I’m not giving up. I just need help lol.. Anyways
I doubt anyone will have my solution
I just feel shitty. And rejected I suppose. But that’s natural, something to get over right? Rejection. I’m ready.. I don’t care. Lets go. What do I do lol
I think focus on making friends before anything. I think it’s kind of a red flag dating someone who doesn’t have friends. Eventually if you do want to go up to people, I would also suggest always giving your number out instead of asking for theirs and putting them on the spot. And yes, most importantly be ready for rejection and embrace that part of life.