Dating : How to recover / cope with embarrassing yourself and looking crazy after 2 times seeing the person.
So long story short met this guy at the gas station. He pursued me for like 2 months. I finally gave him a chance we chilled. I like everything about him and it was great. We’re texting and communicating great. Hung out again. Had sex. And things are still going well at this point I get the vibe it’s Super casual as he is training to go the nba and a D1 athlete I really didn’t expect anything serious. Well over the week he would only txt me really late hours of the night wanting to see me. Stood me up twice but again like I said I get it’s. It’s super casual and he’s busy. Anyways after our 3rd time chilling I sent him a txt saying we should go to the beach if he’s free on the 4th just to try and have like a real date. Wellllll he ignored me. I guess that triggered me because later that night I got DRUNK SUPER DRUNK and I sent him a long txt basically saying fuck off and I wish u never even approached me at the gas station and leave me alone. Blah blah woke up the next morning all he said was damn okayyy like where is there coming from. I was so embarrassed needless to say I came off as crazy. But after that txt I sent another one apologizing explaining how I was just drunk. He liked the txt but gave no real reply. Today I noticed he unfollowed me on his Instagram so of course I send another unanswered text asking why he would do that. Ignored. Then I sent another one saying well fine it’s cool but my feelings hurt. Ignored. So basically now I’m feeling like I will probably never hear from him again and embarrassed myself and really hating myself for being sooooo triggered and don’t even know if this situation can be saved which sucks bc I really like him 🙁
You said it yourself, he probably wanted casual. You cant make him catch feelings. You should probably delete his contacts and maybe go out with friends to get him off your mind.
He didn’t even want casual. He wanted a late night booty call
It’s best you move on
Yeah he was just not that into you. It’s sad, but when he thought you got too clingy, he ghosted. If he really is a potential NBA player, I hate to say it but he probably has tons of girls throwing themselves at him and he’s just used to getting what he wants then bailing.
Yea, time to move on. Unfortunately you should not have texted him after your question about the 4th.
Now you gotta leave him alone. If he wants to hook up, he will text you. If he does text, make sure he wants a real relationship.
Good luck to you!