Dating : I (26M) just asked a woman out and she said yes. But I have anorgasmia
I really like this woman, it took me months to work up the courage to ask her out. But I’m worried about a lot of things, particularly about my sexual dysfunction. I can only orgasm during masturbation. I’ve never reached orgasm with a partner. Sex isn’t all that enjoyable to me really. Like the excitement and build up to sex is fun, but then once I’m actually doing it, it’s not so great. I prefer cuddling. Anyway, I’m worried that if things progress well, this will cause a snag in our developing relationship.
is this a condition diagnosed by a practitioner or cause you jerk off too much and googled your symptoms… if it’s the former – disclose that with her …..
if it’s the latter. stop jerking off. stop porn
stop all of it……
You need to get to a point where you trust her then you should tell her about this and you two can work on it together.
If its right she’ll accept it. If she doesnt, someone else will.
Either go to a doctor or stop jerking off, bf has recently been having same issue where he can’t cum during sex. Turns out he’s been jerking off nearly everyday because I didn’t want to do anything sexual with him :/ ofc I wouldn’t want to, it’s discouraging to know that he’ll get off better with porn then he will with me so…
Stop masturbating and stop watching porn. Write « your brain on porn » on YouTube and google.