Dating : i can’t even get a first date! why do guys ghost me after they express interest in me?
I feel like this is my fault or something… I’ve met/talked to several guys now, all who have expressed some level of interest in me, but none will commit to going out on a first date. They just end up ghosting me eventually after they expressed interest / got to know me via text. I’ve realized I’m pretty incompetent when it comes to dating/flirting, since, until a few months ago I had been in a relationship since end of high school (when I was 18), I’m 23 F now.
**How do I get guys to stop ghosting me and just get to know me?** Literally all I’d like is ONE first date…
More details: these are guys I’ve met on dating apps, met in real life, met through friends. Somehow I keep messing up and saying the wrong things, and being oblivious to flirting — and then realizing hours later. A guy did ask me out on a date but I said ‘maybe’ (I was a little tipsy and it was not even a day after we met) so i realized my mistake and messaged him later telling him I was free this Wednesday and we should go out for drinks — NO RESPONSE!
Thanks in advance for your advice!