Dating : I don’t want to break up but I am going to have to
At the moment I have been dating this girl for 6 that makes me extremely happy and there isn’t much that I would change. The only thing is that I’m nearing the business end if school, and my parents have sacrificed quite a lot to put me through school and have fairly asked me to put school before anything else at the moment. I’m allowed to continue dating but I can’t put anything in front of school. And the problem is that I have an addiction to her, it is difficult to not think of the relationship as more important and I need to stop dating her. It is also my birthday in 2 weeks and I want her to be there so I can have a good memory of this relationship but it’s hard for my concious to allow dating this girl when I know I want to break up with her. I was just wondering if I should tell her now or afterwards, or to try and continue the relationship.
Lol are you 10 years old? Relationship that makes you happy dont just stop « because of parents ». If you’re over 16 years old, seriously, your parents shouldnt have this impact on you. Like why would you want to please them by giving up something you love? Sounds twisted. Where’s your autonomy as a human being? But yeah maybe you don’t want to grow up and maybe you don’t deserve her if she’s that great so …good for her?
Dude, you don’t need to go cold turkey. If you want to dedicate more time to your studies focus on doing that instead of running away. Talk about it with her (you wanting to do better at your studies, not the wanting to break up) so that she understands and can be supportive, make a schedule and limit the interaction to quality time. Things like texting all the time aren’t necessary for example. Just schedule date nights or something like that. You already know how to do it with your studies seeing that you performed well in the past, so just do the same for your relationship.
Fck anything else!
If she makes you happy – keep her!
You two can find a solution for everything else ❤️
Break up so she can get a man
You wantvto make your self miserable go ahead. You clearly don’t love her. If you did you would be asking the question. What is the best for her?
There is no reason that you can’t control your time with her with limits and attend school.