Dating : I (F23) need help on how to approach this guy
This is a throw away account just because I didn’t want to put this on my daily account
There’s this guy who works behind the bar of this family owned restaurant that usually just serves families, couples, and middle-aged singles. So yes, he is a bartender, but it’s not like he is working at a bar where people go to get drunk. It’s families trying to enjoy a meal! Maybe that makes it even weirder… please call me out of it does! I’m not saying you don’t get a lot of single women in there, but not like you do at a bar. I’m 23, I should add, and the bartender I’m talking about is around my age. I always catch him looking at me continuously from behind the bar when I go in to get take out. He kind of fumbles over his words when we interact. He’s so cute, but I don’t know if it’s appropriate to 1)leave my number 2) ask if he’s single or 3) ask him out. Am I wasting my breath even contemplating it? Would I get him in trouble if I did any of the above (not that you all would really even know this, but someone could know from experience)? I don’t want to make him uncomfortable, and I don’t want to get him in trouble, so if the majority of you say “eh maybe not,” then I won’t! But I’m afraid to shoot my shot and make him feel weird. And I know that there is a stigma to hitting on people just doing their job, but I don’t know where he hangs out outside of work other wise I would make a move there, and I may never run into him at any other place.