Dating : I feel at odds with the world of physical attraction
I can’t help but feel like I don’t mesh with modern physical attraction standards. Personally, I’m not picky about a woman’s body type. Yes, I would prefer someone who likes going outside from time to time or going to the gym but they don’t need to be a gym rat. I’m losing weight and succeeding. I’m at my lowest so far (226 lbs, 6’1.5″). But I can’t help but feel like being physically fit is emphasized too much as, « I’ll lose weight to be attractive physically, » and not enough as, « I’ll lose weight so that I’m healthier overall! »
Being physically fit is nice, and gets you more shots at the goal but if your game is weak you can talk yourself out of those same opportunities.