Dating : I Feel Like He’s Lost Interest
I’ve been going out with a guy for a couple of months now. I’m 39, he’s 36. We’ve spent so much time together in that period though. He tells me he loves being with me and I feel the same. I honestly haven’t felt like this about another guy. I went out of town a week ago for 4 days. Came back 3 days ago and he still hasn’t made plans to see me. We spent the entire week together last week until I left. We were supposed to go out yesterday and then I never heard from him until he texted to say he’d fallen asleep. He hardly texts me much anymore. I can’t decide how to ask what is going on. Or do I even say anything at all?
Poppet in the words of Ariana Grande – “thank you, next”….
Life is too short to play the “why hasn’t he messaged me/seem keen on me?” game.
That being said – have you said you’re officially dating? Did you discuss on your trip that you’re meeting up and make concrete plans? If he sees things as casual then he may just be keeping you warm…or in this case…almost cold.
Maybe drop him a message to see if he’s free – but if he makes his excuses, after that bail out.
And yes, it smarts when we REALLY fancy them.
Go out there, and find someone who chases you!
He likely has a new prospect… this has been my experience when getting the old blow off anyway. Cut contact.
He should having been booking you in for a date while you were on the trip for when you returned. Not limping in with a text to say he’d fallen asleep? The hell? He doesn’t deserve you following up. Bye boy.
He’s with the side piece.
He found somebody younger.
How many kids do you have?