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Dating : I feel like I need to get out there in dating

Dating : I feel like I need to get out there in dating


Up front I am a 24 year old ftm transgender male in the beginning of my medical transition and I am not hiding that as it is a part of me. I’m from Youngstown, Ohio. Not the tallest person, I’m only 5’3, Hispanic and I know no Spanish unfortunately.

But I’m getting into gaming (I only have Xbox right now) I play Halo, Apex and sometimes Zombies in COD, dabble in Assassin’s Creed, I have Animal Crossing too. Collecting Funko Pops and Mini Brands, and building things like those Lego type things you can find at Target. ATLA and LoK are my fav plus The 100, Disney+, Netflix, Hulu, I’d love to travel but money is an issue for me right now, my music taste ranges but I’m not a rock, rap, metal, or country person, (it’s just not my style). Im a cook (went to culinary school) so I can cook (I’m alright at it). I have two cats so beware of allergies.

I feel like I need to get out there again into the dating world after over a year of being single and feeling very lonely. My ex and I are sort of trying to be friends but we cant see each other as just friends. She’s already been on a date and talking to people because of her friends setting her up on dating sites and I have nothing going for me not even a friend.

So I’m trying here first to maybe just get a friend or maybe something more if it turns into that but since having some short conversations with people on here, I just get ghosted when I say I’m transgender. Please don’t comment or message if me being transgender is a turn off or whatever. It just gets sad because of the ghosting.

If you’d really like to have a genuine conversation with me first to get to know each other I’m cool with that even if it leads nowhere but just be genuine about having a conversation.

I’m looking for women as friends or even a partner (if anything amounts to going that far) around the same age as me. I feel I’ve always gotten along with women better as friends too (just the gender I gravitate towards).

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  1. I’m not really sure how to advise you since you haven’t really mentioned what type of person you want to attract.

    Are you seeking men, women, or other transpersons?

    Anyway, the best way to meet new people is to get a hobby within a social setting (a dance class, yoga, book club, etc.)

    Also, being transgender is going to reduce your dating pool. It is what it is. I advise you to not feel too poorly about it, though. That’s not something you can directly change.

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