Dating : I feel like my online girlfriend lies about trusting me.

Dating : I feel like my online girlfriend lies about trusting me.

I’ve know this girl for 5 months and we’ve been dating for 2. We are pretty close and talk to each other all day when we can. She says she’s an insecure person and I respect that, but yet we’ve obviously seen each others faces many times and voice call for many hours.

Once we were talking abour our exes and I learnt that there was this guy to whom she and her bestfriend had sent nudes to twice and sexted around 9 months ago. She explains that she didn’t feel anything for him. Sure she trusted him with the nudes but she keeps repeating that she only sent because they really wanted to see his nudes and her bestfriend kept begging for her to do so. She talks about how her bestfriend makes her feel so confident, thus pushing her to send him the nudes. She only says that she sent and sexted him while her bestfriend did so aswell but I don’t know what to think.

I haven’t asked her for nudes as I don’t want to push her to anything, even though she has seen and asked for mine many times. She’s known me for longer yet hasn’t taken the steps she took with that guy.

I personally believe that she trusted him more and that he made her feel comfier than I do. She explains that that’s not the case and it’s different now since thay was 9 months ago she has created insecurities.

I’m not asking her to send anything, but I just want to understand. I’d very much appreciate her saying that she felt better around him than lie to me to make me feel better.

If you could help me figure this out I’d greatly appreciate it, or even an advice coming from any of you. I can provide more detail if needed.