Dating : I fucking hate bumble
Its a stupid dating app ontop of that you got to wait for a girl to message first and half the time they dont even do that and the chat expires
Its a stupid dating app ontop of that you got to wait for a girl to message first and half the time they dont even do that and the chat expires
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Bumble empowers women by allowing them to filter TWICE before allowing the men to communicate.
It’s not about women going first. It’s about limiting their their que of matches.
It’s a sea of generic profiles and every guy looks like some variation of frat boy sales associate douchebag.
Not a valid reason to hate the app – if a girl isn’t interested in you enough to message then Bumble saved you some time.
Dating apps are bad for everyone. Guys complain that girls don’t message first, but then women complain that when they do initiate, guys don’t respond. It’s not one group being worse than another. It all sucks. For everyone.
If they don’t message you then you were never going to go on a date with them in the first place. The kind of girl that matches but never messages is the kind of girl that never goes on dates either. You gotta understand that.
Me too and I’m a woman. I get a lot of matches and always send the first message. Most men don’t reply, if they do they can’t hold a conversation.
Lad, do yourself a favor and delete dating apps. They are a scam and you can do better meeting women in person.
I’ve had a few bumble matches that actually messaged. Their opening message was Heyyy or Hi. One girl I actually dated sent me a gif image of someone waving. But when it comes to guys messaging first they want us to make an effort to say something conversation worthy.
Bumbles ok. I don’t bother ever messaging my matches first on tinder because I’m not gonna waste my time on people who aren’t actually interested and wade through the sea of bots. I guess the majority do the same thing as me and wait for their message first as well. Bumble forces them to make the first move so if they match and don’t actually want to communicate with you then you don’t waste your time. I’m a guy, I don’t know why guys would complain about this. It helps sort legitimate interested matches for us
Women and the first move…
They’re only for the top 5% of men. In Boston all the women an I mean ALL the women date by an actual rule called the 6-6’s.
1) At least a six-figure salary.2) At least six-feet tall.3) 6% or less of body fat. 4) Has a six-pack abdomen.5) At least six months since his last relationship.6) At least six inches below the belt.
Use a different app. There’s a lot of them.
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I took data on it back in October. It isn’t anyone friendly. I matched with 100 people total and half of the guys let the conversation expire
I’m a 22 yo (M), and I prefer bumble. I get more matches on tinder than bumble, but I feel like the profiles are better and the girls are more engaging, and want to talk to me. On tinder, I get ghosted and flaked on way more. I also have to be the one to start almost every conversation on tinder, which I’m ok with, but Bumble makes the girls start it. Even though 95% of the time all they say is « Hey », it does take a little bit of the pressure off. If they never start the conversation, then fuckem, it wasn’t meant to be. Just wait for the next one or hit up an old one.