Dating : I have a confession to make
Ive been told i am attractive for a good part of my life and ive been asked out a number of times by people. But i was never interested and those that i was in never truly lasted. I met my current boyfriend about 1 year and few months ago. When i first met him he was a shy and extremely introverted guy and he had very low self esteem about how he views himself.
He is a genuinely sweet and funny and a very considerate person. He is a great listener and always brightens up my day and it is not a surprise that i fell in love with him. Shortly after we started dating and he would say stuff like how he doesnt even know why im dating him. Or stuff like how i am out of his league or tell me how i can get a man much more attractive then he is. The comments were subtle and he doesnt say it out seriously but in a jokingly matter but ik he means it.
I compliment this man alot. And i mean everything i say he is attractive and has the most beautiful smile and i wished he would see himself the way i do. He noticed my little complimates and fast forward to present
He is one of the most confident guy ik now. And im so proud of him for loving himself.
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I didnt even expect to get replies on this but im so greatful and thank u🥰
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YALL ARE TOO NICE 🥺🥺🥺
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you guys are one the most loveliest people i have ever met on the internet i am just in love with all of u. May ypu continue being kind and lovely. This world is negative as it is and the few of u being so sweet gives me so much joy
You did it right. I’m sure there’s a lot of us who could learn from this.
Dude!!! Highest of praise to you. My first gf was soooo pretty. I used to say the very same as your bf used to. She broke up with me because I was too insecure.
You to be patient and see him for who he is was always going to pay off. Good for you both!
Dang. All I want in life is to find a girl like this to support me. I’m not weird, or ugly or anything, but have low confidence and have such a hard time meeting people.
Good on you
How did you meet?
This is so sweet of you beautiful lady!
He must have been hurt badly in the past. Very wholesome of you to be very supportive and affectionate towards him!! People like you are very rare, so cherish together, make memories and have fun!! Needed some motivation knowing that there are still people like you in the world ☺️
Awww that’s so wholesome! You’ve helped him build his confidence- that’s really quite beautiful.
that’s so sweet! we talk a lot about how many wonderful girls deal w low self steem and date horrible guys because of this, and we never talk about really nice guys who never dates ever because of the same problem. you changed something important in his life, and he will always remember you. i wish nice guys w low self steem could see their beauty and atractiveness build up their confidence. they are so rare!
That really is wonderful – kudos to you!
Honestly, it’s pretty much all that we guys who have been constantly rejected and insulted etc. in the dating world need – someone to show us that we are not as worthless as we are repeatedly told, and to give us a little confidence after it has been shattered from the constant negative experiences we have had.
Really wish others would take note – there are so many wonderful but different looking or less conventionally attractive guys that are caught in this trap, fearful and lacking self-esteem as a result of the brutal insults they have faced, often being their only experience. A little empathy and a chance could be all it takes for us to reveal what’s hidden or ignored.
You’re a blessing of a person, that’s really cool.
Congrats
dont make me cry, this is too darn sweet. congrats to yall <3
Very beautiful I’m happy for both of you
The right woman can make a world of difference in a man’s life! You’re a ⭐
I wish i had coins cause i’d legit give you the wholesome award
That’s so cute, I’m proud of him too! And of you, you did good sis❤️
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