Dating : I have a list of sex/dating/relationship questions inside:
Hey guys, I have a list of sex/dating/relationship questions below:
-I’m in my early 20s, how long into relationship are you supposed to have sex?
-When in your 20s and also in a relationship, how often are you supposed to have sex?
-What exactly are you supposed to do and say after sex?
-If your in a relationship, how exactly do you initiate sex? Like, what exactly do you say and do to your partner?
-How long into a relationship do you say “I love you”? Who says it first? Or does it not matter?
-For those in a relationship in your 20s, how often so you have sex?
-If a coworker asked for sex, would you do it with them? Or would it be completely off limits?
-College age people that are in relationships, how often do you have sex?
Thanks!
-I’m in my early 20s, how long into relationship are you supposed to have sex?
When ever you and who ever you’re dating is comfortable to have sex. This can range from 1 date to many (most I’ve had before sex was 6 dates), but all before being in a committed relationship
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-When in your 20s and also in a relationship, how often are you supposed to have sex?
Sex drive between people can differ A LOT. When I was in my early 20s and in a long term relationship it would be around 3 or 4 times per week. At the start of the relationship it was probably over 7 times a week, it depends on how much you see each other and in what context. But again sexual drive between people varies, so don’t focus on the number of times you’re having sex but more on that both you and your partner are satisfied.
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-What exactly are you supposed to do and say after sex?
You don’t have to do or say anything. Most of the time cuddling is what usually happens afterwards. And with talking you could say talk about something that happened during sex or just resume normal conversation, I’ve never really paid much attention to that tbh.
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-If your in a relationship, how exactly do you initiate sex? Like, what exactly do you say and do to your partner?
The same way as you would outside of a relationship. Just when in a relationship you can be way more straight forward sometimes and straight up ask about having sex.
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-How long into a relationship do you say “I love you”? Who says it first? Or does it not matter?
Doesn’t matter, and no pre-set amount of time to say it. If you don’t feel it, don’t say it.
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-If a coworker asked for sex, would you do it with them? Or would it be completely off limits?
Coworkers should be off limits, same goes with housemates.
Hi there
First of all there are no rules for any relationship that suits everyone
So depends what u and your new partner want from each other and what you both agree on together
Sex if your matched can be as much as possible
Some relationships are easy some are hard work
Just stop putting high expectations on yourself
Goodluck with it
Just enjoy each other
lol. These answers are highly subjective, but here’s a run down:
Sex – any time. How soon? When we’re both comfortable. How often? A lot. In a relationship? Often with. How to initiate: hopefully that’s not a problem. Co-workers? Hell no. Never had a relationship in college so can’t answer the last.
I’m going to start by saying there’s no set rules on when you should/shouldn’t do these things. Below are just what *I* do:
> I’m in my early 20s, how long into relationship are you supposed to have sex?
Between dates 1-3.
> When in your 20s and also in a relationship, how often are you supposed to have sex?
Multiple times a week.
> What exactly are you supposed to do and say after sex?
Cuddle, talk, and hydrate.
> If your in a relationship, how exactly do you initiate sex? Like, what exactly do you say and do to your partner?
I don’t say much. I just start kissing her and take off her clothes.
> How long into a relationship do you say “I love you”? Who says it first? Or does it not matter?
When you love her. In my relationship, she said it first.
> For those in a relationship in your 20s, how often so you have sex?
Multiple times a week.
> If a coworker asked for sex, would you do it with them? Or would it be completely off limits?
Depends on if I needed the job or not. If it was just a part time job that I didn’t need to pay my bills, then sure. If it was my career (and I intended to keep that job for a long time), I wouldn’t.
> College age people that are in relationships, how often do you have sex?
Multiple times a week.