Dating : I went on a date today with a complete stranger
I’ve been single since February after being in a relationship for over 10 years, I’ve been on 2 dates now. The first was with a guy that I kind of knew, it went well but then he got super over the top and wanted way more than I can give. The 2nd one was today with a complete stranger I met online, I was super nervous about it because I had that « he’s way out of my league » feeling. It was just a lunch date but I think it went well, I left the ball in his court by saying « message me or dont, up to you »when I left. I haven’t heard from him yet but either way I’m just glad I actually went on a date and followed through with it even though I wanted to message 20 times to cancel.
> »message me or dont, up to you »
Comes off passive aggressive, unnecessary and off-putting. No wonder you haven’t heard back from him.
Right on. At least your living and going on with you’re life. When my fiancee left me I died inside. Not going to lie, shit is bad for me right now. And then two days ago she comes back into my life. But she does so in the weirdest way possible. I play overwatch, she does as well. Suddenly she’s dropping into all my games and spectating me untill someone in my team leaves and she fills the spot… yet doesn’t say a thing to me.
… I asked her what she was doing and she made it seem like it wasn’t a big deal to be doing that for 4 hours.. we get to talking she apologizes and we talk a lot for about two days and she put so many signs out there of making it work and wanting to get back together but now she’s ghosting me again.
I’m not sure how much of this I can take. It had been two months and about two weeks since I last tried to contact her and then this happens. I hate people..
It’s very hard to do. I had given up but now she’s back around and she’s being all close and nice and then an asshole but acts like she doesn’t even know or nothing is wrong. It’s so weird.
I miss having someone to care for and I miss being cared for.
> I went on a date today with a complete stranger
That’s way better than a cousin.
Why would she. I don’t understand what I have done to deserve this. I opened up I gave her it all. Now she treats me with random days if I love you I miss you and questions of if I would ever get back with her and who I’ve been talking to and all that…