Dating : If someone lied about their hair, would that be considered a deal breaker ?
I’ve (30F) have been dating a Persian man (35M) through OLD for almost a month now. For reference he has a full set of hair. Last night as we were kissing I ran my hands through the back of his hair and felt something….. I can’t necessarily describe it, but the first thing that came to my mind was a toupee. I stopped and moved my hands elsewhere afraid of what it would be.
From the moment I met him, I did admire his hair because it was so full and nice. He has so much hair that I had even joked with a friend saying that it’s too good to be true, that it must be fake. He parts it on the side and one of the first things I noticed is that you can’t really even see his scalp. I figured it was just because he has so much hair. 🤷🏻♀️
I have seen his social media and older pics dating back to 2016 and his hair looks similar in all his pictures. But after last night I’m now wondering if he’s wearing a hair piece… I don’t have a preference for men with hair or bald. I’m also not bothered by a hair piece, but I kinda feel deceived. I also want to ask, but not sure how I would approach it. I don’t want to hurt his feelings if he is, but again I feel like he lied about this and it makes me wonder what else may not be true. So I’m here asking for your opinion or a different perspective on this.
Could you clarify when he lied about it?
There’s women who wear hair clips ins, so to me it’s the least of issues honestly if he’s rocking it, he’s good to go.
I am sorry is this krufts. What are you talking about
For me, no. As long as I find the person attractive, I’m good.
Most people aren’t biologically natural. From things like plastic surgery, braces, hair coloring, etc., we all pretty much look different than we would have in a completely natural state. Plastic surgery is at an all time high last I checked.
Society is fake. If you digged down enough, you’d probably find an unnatural enhancement on anyone.
i think some of the people in the comments are being quite rude. it is totally up to you whether or not you feel weirded out by this guy possibly wearing a hairpiece. you are entitled to your own preferences and perception. if it is a hairpiece, it shows two things: number one, he is probably bald under there. would you date a guy who is balding? number two, he’s goin right out the gate with deception. people are trying to say he has no obligation to tell you that his hair is fake. having no obligation and being humble & honest are two different things. it would rub me the wrong way to know a guy had chosen to omit the fact that his hair was fake, because it just seems really silly and deceptive, and on top of it they’re trying to pass the good hair off as their own, and taking credit for something they had nothing to do with is not an ideal trait in a man for me