Dating : Is it ghosting of they never contact you again either?
I’ve been on a bunch of dates in the past few months, and I’ve never really jived with them. I always try to leave them with the impression that I had a good time, which I usually do, and wait to see if they care enough to want another date. I’ve only ever had one girl message me after the date.
I know what I’m doing is probably wrong, but is it as bad when they dont seem to care?
It doesn’t have to be about you at all. Either they just weren’t into it the way you are or they found someone else or they’re just not ready for a relationship. Ghosting sucks and it makes you feel bad about yourself, but try not to take it personally, it happens to the best of us.
If it was a mutual ghosting, I see no harm done.
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I *am* sensing disappointment on your end. Are you disappointed because they aren’t upset because you ghosted??
I think ghosting is more of you are continuously reaching out but never hear a response back…
Yea if u message someone & they don’t hit u back for more than 3 days tops… they’ve ghosted u