Dating : Is it worth trying again?

Dating : Is it worth trying again?

I feel that things don’t add up and I was wondering if it would be advisable to try again later. Sorry for the long post.

So here’s the thing, me and this girl went out twice. The first time we went out we went to a diner and ate for 2 hours, after that we went to get ice cream, relax at a park and later parted ways, for an hour. She said she was going to an event, when I asked what was it about she said if I wanted to go. I went and she stuck by me the whole time and made sure I got all things they were giving out. Once things were done we parted ways and she later texted me that night if I got home ok. We ended up spending about 7 hours together the whole day.

The second time we went out. We also went to a diner again, as we both are in college and had time to spare. We ate, and she paid for the whole meal, even though I insisted on paying. As we were waiting for the check I had to leave as I was late for my class. While walking to class, to my surprise, she ran and caught up to me and walked me to class, even though she had no clases left for the day. At the end of it I gave her a hug and she blushed.

The next day I texted her if she wanted to go on a date with me, but said she was busy and did not offer a day to reschedule, I thought it was a clear rejection. The next day I tried to avoid her, to avoid awkwardness, but she came up to me and seemed extremely happy to see me. I was surprised. Later on the week, we chatted and asked her again if she wanted to go out. She agreed, but two days before the date she cancelled, when I tried asking her if she was available on two specific days ( I was going to be busy the upcoming week, which is the reason I stated the two days) she said she made plans to go out with friends on those two days. I told her to let me know when she will be free. I did the mistake of texting her first before she got and we chatted, but things seemed different. Her texts seemed shorter and she took longer to respond. I than asked her out again the next day, to which it took her 9 hours to say, “I don’t know, I might be busy” I told her to let me know when she will be free, to which she never replied back.

To be honest, I fell head over heels for her. To me things don’t add up. When we went out, we maintained strong eye contact, she would frequently get extremely close to me, she would tease me, she would smile a lot, she even introduced me to her friends, and we would have engaging conversations.

During that, I learned a lot about myself and what I have to improve both mentally and physically. Since I noticed the things I have to work on, I plan on working on them. We are in summer vacation and im pretty sure I’m not going to hear back from her, but I know I am going to bump into her in college in about 2 months. Should I try again than? I still really like her.

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  1. I’d definitely try again, but in what way I’m not sure.

    Not too long ago something extremely similar happened to me. Amazing first date, etc, etc. Then texts got shorter and shorter, I saw the writing on the wall, so I shot my last shot and missed.

    Overall I’m glad I got the confirmation I did, because it really makes moving on easier. In my opinion, try again because it either works or you move on faster.

  2. Nah dude. You’ve made your interest clear multiple times without real reciprocity. Anything more and you’ll be moving into clingy territory. FWIW, she enjoyed receiving the attention but that’s all it was. Easy to discern because when you tried to nail down hard plans for multiple dates with multiple options she went cold. Moving on is the thing to do.

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