Dating : Is rushing into a relationship ALWAYS bad?

Dating : Is rushing into a relationship ALWAYS bad?

I recently broke up with my girlfriend because I felt like I was the only reason she stayed to live in the state that I’m in while her family moved across the states. I’m flattered for sure, however, money was tight for her, she didn’t like her job, her roommate situation was toxic, and I wasn’t ready for her to move in with me, which was sort of an ultimatum that she presented toward me. We’re both 22. I had a great time with her and we both grew a lot. After having closure with her, it ended up being pretty mutual. She was understanding and it felt great having a deep conversation with her on that level because we rarely had those while we were dating. It came off like a casual relationship.
I came out of the relationship fairly confident. I knew what worked and what didn’t work from my past relationship. However I wasn’t mourning too much over it all. Which made me feel inconsiderate and selfish. But only because that’s how you’re supposed to feel in this circumstance, right? I recently started talking to this girl that I’ve had a crush on for a bit. We’ve been hanging out a lot recently but it’s been great so far. We connect really well and we’re both incredibly open with one another. We both have stated that we don’t have any expectations toward how things go; we’re just enjoying each others company and it’s been incredibly refreshing. I understand I’m getting in over my head a bit here, but things don’t feel wrong.. just looking for some advice. Thx!