Dating : It’s so frustrating being horny and touched starved 24/7
I(20) feel like I fluctuate between the two but I’m always one or the other. Sometimes just insatiably horny for what feels like weeks. No amount of masturbation will solve it. It’s like a massive itch that I quite can’t reach by myself and I lack the social skill to get a girl to help me scratch it.
What’s worse is being touch starved. Being horny just makes me feel bad physically, being touch starved depressed me emotionally and makes me feel bad physically. There are nights I lie up in bed wondering what the warmth of another human body feels like and questioning if I’ll ever find out.
I can’t find a good distraction for either of these so I kinda have no option but to just sit in these feelings.
Can anyone else relate
yea, it sucks. It only gets worse as you get older.
Same situation except I’m 27, it sucks
The warmth part of the other person is over rated, personally have to move sooner or later cause I get too hot lol
Yes. Now where are you let’s fix this
I have this problem too and it sucks. I’m 35 years old.
I’m exactly the same but 19
I mean im 19 and it aint that bad just get some hobbies bro
why don’t dont you go on Tinder or something f
I’d just like to encourage you, not being socially apt enough doesn’t have to be a permanent thing, look up Charisma University on YouTube, that will help a lot, try talking to random people, they don’t even have to be girls just practicing talking, maybe look at improve, things like “yes anding” hygiene is very very important, I brush my teeth four times a day, that’s overboard but if you have to do it, get nice clothes, look up how to take better photos, drink a lot of water, that will help with weight and skin and energy, working out, you don’t have to be massive but working out once or twice a week, make sure you have nice clothes and a clean apartment/house.
You don’t have to do all of these but even if you did every single one that’s less then 5 hours a week, and I promise you will see results within a month
You think that it is hell now..wait until you are married
You can’t use the same techniques and routines and expect better results. If a profile isn’t getting you matches.. change the dam pictures, get a photographer to take professional pictures if necessary; make a freaking expressive and attractive bio; get a course on dating and game.
You’re hopeless and pessimist coz you don’t try to improve thro others. There’s only so much you can do on your own. Use other’s experiences and skills to move up.
Yeah, dude. 18M here and I can relate just fine, exactly like you said.
I’ve been touched starved for over 12 years, it sucks. But I guess it’s better than having your heart broken.
Start hugging your friends when you meet them. To me that helped a lot with my need for touch.
try and find someone at your job or maybe start a hobby and find someone there. get yourself involved in something where youre involved with ppl
Learning social skills isn’t impossible, you know
Yep, been single my whole life. Touch starved and horny all the time as well, nothing can satisfy the urges anymore. I just want sex and intimacy with someone more than anything
Get better looks
Well worst case scenario you can go on luckycrush.com