Dating : Sad and Confused
I feel like it’s really hard for me to like someone enough to be in a relationship with. I’ve gone out on many dates where the guys super into me but I’m just not feeling it and I absolutely hate it.
I met someone that had so many random coincidences and similarities as me it was crazy. There were a lot of things that I really liked about him and that I seek out for in a partnee, but I just didnt feel anything for him.
People say that I just need to keep seeing them and I may start to slowly like them more, but the last time I did that I ended up resenting the person and did not want to text them, have them touch me or be around them.
Unfortunately the one guy I did feel a spark just wanted to be friends. I guess I got a taste of what I’ve been doing to other guys. I can understand why though.
It just sucks and I feel like with the era of online dating people are so hard read and to connect with. As well as asking someone out in person is starting to not be a thing anymore– at least where I’m from, it rarely happens.
Meet without much of expectations and slowly u will get bk
You can’t expect the fairy tale life, but why not right? I live in Atlanta and dating is hard because both ends feel they can just find better. This also goes with knowing how big the world is now vs when you were a kid. Honestly, keep doing dates, eventually one guy will be worth the time, but honestly you need to be worth his also. Thats the sad part is we look for people who are worth our time, Not finding someone and « making it work » or « learning about each-other »
Keep going and Hell, If you wanna chat you can message me. even talking about it more helps, sure has helped me tbh.
Maybe u like girls?
I’ve had the same experiences with girls. Go one one or two dates and poof! They disappear. It honestly gets frustrating, no accountability at all.
Are you dating a lot? This happens with guys who date a lot of girls. They stop feeling sparks. It’s a form of repetitive fatigue. Like even if you like chocolate if you eat too much it stops being fun.
If this is the case, taking a break for awhile (say a few months) may be enough to reset.