Dating : Kinda weird experience, or is it normal?
I’m (35m) new to dating after a 9 year long relationship and while I’ve talked to a few women nothing romantic has come from it yet. I have made a couple friends which is good.
The first woman I’ve talked to on match that seems interested and I’m interested as well, is kind of…. Odd? She texts a lot and wants to meet but it’s hard to get her to say much about herself. This is the text I got when I directly asked:
« My longer relationship was 1.5 years.
I lost my virginity when I was 18
Both of my parents r still living
I have a younger bro that has 2 kids and a older sister that has all girls.
Never done drugs
I have my associates degree in applied science for medical assistant. »
That’s about the most she’s said about herself. When asking about hobbies and interests she just said spending time with her significant other and hoped it’ll be me. No favorite movies or genres even. I don’t know if she’s trying not to say something I won’t like or if she’s just bland.
Oh well, I don’t know what I hope you guys will tell me but any advice is welcome.
Some people really struggle to find an identity for themselves separate from their relationships. She sounds like one of those people. The only thing she can think of to say about herself is her job and family situation. Maybe in her mind, or in actuality, that’s the most interesting thing about her. The fact that she says her only hobby is hanging out with her SO is a red flag for me personally. Maybe that was her attempt at flirting, but she might actually mean it. Which means she could be the type of woman who wants to spend every moment with you and gets upset if you want to do something without her.
Personally I’d avoid this girl, but that’s just my opinion. Take things slowly and be careful at the very least.
Is this girl a lot younger than you ? Sounds like she doesn’t have a lot going on. She might need someone to open her eyes or she is a stage 5 clinger. Hard to tell with such little info.