Dating : Lack of effort and communication
We matched on tinder, and have had the one date that happened by luck. I had a date that canceled and he got off of work early so it was a small miracle that I was looking good and had childcare established. I’m so into him. He is my type physically and personality.
However, he works two jobs and always there. No availability and we text here and there but nothing much. I’m needy and can be co dependent so I’m trying to be cool and not text first or reach out. We text maybe once or twice a day. He reached out before more often before we met but not as much now.
I want to see him more often and text more often. How do I either deal with status quo or communicate this?
Ik men like the chase. Do I make myself not available?
Ugh. He’s 39 and I don’t think he’s playing games I think he’s genuinely busy but I want more.
If he wanted to talk to you, he would. The fact that he isn’t reaching out to you as much after your date with him is a sign that he’s not feeling it anymore.
I don’t want to be the joy killer here, but the fact that he reached out more often before you guys met and it became less afterwards, is unfortunately not the best sign.