Dating : Locking eyes games

Dating : Locking eyes games


I have recently noticed a guy at work, at the same floor as me. He’s at the beginning of the open plane office, while I’m at the middle.

My path is the same every morning and evening, as it’s near the entrance and he’s on the path.

Two days ago, while queuing to eat downstairs, I bumped into him accidentally while he was talking with another girl from our floor. He smiled and kept looking at me while I was asking if they were queuing too.

Then, during the afternoon, I went to the break room to get a call and he was there too on the phone as well, and we locked eyes for a few, more in a ‘oh you’re here too, I see you now’ kinda look. I finished the call after some mins, and went to take some water behind him, and he kept looking at me and then walked to the place I was sitting to, but moved because I was going there again to relax a bit.

I thought I was gonna see him again this morning but I saw him later. We were both with friends so we didn’t do anything. We didn’t look at each other at all, like I tried going in front of him so he can notice me but nope, nothing happened.

Thing is, I really wanna talk to him, but I don’t know if I’m reading too much between the lines. Like maybe he thought fun that I bumped into him or whatever, and then kept thinking of me as a goofy one or I don’t know. I’m pretty average too, like I’m not super good looking but I’m in the average range so I can’t put it on my looks haha. Unless he finds me attractive.

I never noticed him before two days ago, so that kinda happened, but I feel attracted to him, like I wanna talk to him but I don’t even know why.
I’m scared of going to him at the office and be like ‘oh hey, how’re you doing ?’ and start a small talk because I don’t want to push him or anything.

What would you do? What should I do? Am I reading too much into it?


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  1. Make sure you’re giving the right signal when locking eyes with him. It’s very possible to get mixed signals if your facial expression and posture says“F***OFF”
    If you need one last attempt, next time you see him, greet him by his name, pause for just a second and walk away if he fails to acknowledge your simple approach. You might catch him off guard by this but if he doesn’t approach you afterwards, move on!

  2. Guys don’t lock eyes and smile with girls they find unattractive. But context matters, if it is only you two and aforementioned happens then I would say its a go. Chat him up on an after work pub visit with your colleagues (we do this a lot in Sweden) and try to get him into a conversation there. If he’s interested he’ll read your hints – and then anything could happen 🙂

    I’m a guy and I’ve considered dating colleagues but it’s a risk.. What if there is a fallout? Could be awkward!

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