Dating : Looking for self improvement and dating advice
hopefully this is the right place to post this but i was curious if anyone had any good pointers on how to meet women and find a relationship. The advice is for myself ( M28)
I have tried online dating with some very rare success in the past. it just seems like i cant get my foot in the door when it comes to dating. I have plenty of confidence i know i am a smart decent guy. My online pictures that i use are all pretty modest. No shirtless pictures or unshaved, unclean looking pictures. i try to include a few of myself in different actives just having fun. When i message women i send thoughtful messages not just hey whats up. I try to ask them questions about things found in their profile like if they say they are a music lover i ask what kind of music do they enjoy.
I tried online dating because i suck at approaching women offline. Even when i start up conversations it always feels so weird to be ask them out. i am going to a university so maybe that opens up some unique ways to meet women?
Before it gets brought up This post is in no way designed to be a rant or a complaint that no one will ever want me. Its not that no one wants me, i just suck at meeting people and am looking for any advice people have to offer. due to events beyond my control i never really learned how to navigate dating all that well.
Any advice is welcome. Ill even take good ice breaker questions to use if you got them
And thanks everyone for the help
If you aren’t having much success online dating it means your pictures aren’t up to snuff. Unfortunately it’s ALL looks when it comes to meeting women online. I’d suggest working up courage to approach women during your day to day life. Out in the mall, grocery store doesn’t matter. You’d probably have a better success rate doing that