Dating : (M18) There’s a girl I like who’s 21. I wanna ask her out because we seem to have lots in common. But I don’t know how to do it without being awkward because of the age difference.
Any tips on how to do this (or whether I should)? I said we should hang out sometime the other day and she said “yeah, sure!” But I don’t know if she wants to hang out as friends or more.
18 vs 21 is not a major age difference. Bigger differences will be 10 years or 20 year differences.
Well it depends where you guys are in live? Like if she 21, she may just finish college or about to finish college we’re as you being 18 could of just started. I feel like it would be hard to keep the relationship going if it worked out. 3 years is not a big age difference but at 18 your still kind of young and trying figure out what you want in life where as 21 you got stuff rolling and working in your career.
But if you guys really cool with each other and you feel like you getting hints then go for it. Just know what you getting in to
Enjoy! make laugh and tell her how pretty she is. Don’t go right for a kiss or anything unless she goes for it. Only because she is 21 you are 18. and if you go for it, she can say O0O aren’t we immature going for a kiss. Fuck that! be a man, make he feel beautiful and wanted, but don’t go for it. just let her forget about the age, and look at you.
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In all if she is attracted to you, she will DTF
Just play it by ear
Be genuine and ask her on a date. Honestly its not a big gap at all and should be no problem
When I was 21, I dated an 18 year old. He was really mature, so the age difference didn’t matter. I would say just don’t think too much about it and see how it goes!
I’m currently 22 yrs and a female and the guy I like is 19. I do wish he were older, but I mean… it is what it is
The best thing I ever did was take a ‘fuck it’ view on life. If you think it could be worth it, go for it. Fortune favors the bold. If she’s a good friend and says no, nothing will change. If she says yes, there you go, you’re in.
Ask her out, then you will know for certain. Also it’s not akward damnit. It’s only 3 years. It’s akward if it’s like 14-17 but over 18 is fine with a few years.