Dating : Messaged my crush, told her I was interested in her, she responded positively, now I’m getting cold feet….
We met through online school a few months ago were really vibing in a breakout room. I would’ve asked her out then but we were in different cities and I sure didn’t want some awkward long distance courtship thing.
Fast forward a few months I have moved to the same city as her. I manage to work up the confidence to message her and ask her out.
She’s really cute and charming but honestly looks wise I don’t know if she’s my first choice. What really pisses me off is how long it takes her to write back to my messages. I feel like they’re being delivered by post. I don’t know if she’s insecure and feels like she needs to play hard to get or something?
This has happened a lot to me in the last year. I’m super interested in someone and then when mutual interest becomes apparent I lose interest so quickly.
I’m not sure what I should do here. I don’t know if I should stop overthinking and just go out with her or if I’m wasting her time.
Go out with her and see if you vibe in person. Maybe she’s just a slow texter or whatever. But also, you just met her. Her life doesn’t revolve around you. If this is giving you so much grief at this point you guys might not be a good match.
Yeah most people have enough going on that they’re not glued to their phones 24/7. As long as she responds in less than a day I’d be pleased. A guy waited a month to get back to me and then acted offended when I was over it.
Sounds like you’re wasting your own time