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Dating : Met someone at work, dont know what im doing

Dating : Met someone at work, dont know what im doing


I need help.

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I am not particularly experienced in what women do. I met a girl at work and I think I like her a lot.

My first problem is that I don’t know 100% whether she likes me as a personality or is just nice to me because I work with her. I’m assuming that she likes me, it’s no problem to skip that I’d just find out anyway.

My next problem is that since the beginning of the week she has been very cool and repellent, although we got along well last week and laughed together. In general, we worked a lot together, touched each other constantly and told each other things. I have to say I didn’t embarrass them or lift them up on a platform. I don’t think I showed her that I liked her either.

Now I don’t know if I maybe missed asking her if we do something together and she’s frustrated or just doesn’t like me.

For me it’s very hard to ask her if she wants to do anything after work, because I’m actually very introverted even if I seem extroverted.

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I know for a fact that I think too much. Of course, it’s just that if things go wrong, the work will be impregnated. But I don’t have any other place where I can get to know people that interest me.

If it was just about sex, it wouldn’t be a problem because I like her as a person, I’m afraid of losing something.

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Maybe someone has some advice for me.

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  1. Depends where you work, but tread lightly. Sometimes you don’t wanna shit where you eat. Unless she works in another dept or team, but if you work close together, just broach it gently

  2. Ask her out. If she seems in the middle, let it be something casual like a nice lil lunch. a good one on one convo away from work place can help move it along….

    it’s a marathon not a sprint. remember why you’re there in the first place. I say that to say don’t try to make a big deal out of it just remain calm, and if she does dig you or wants you around, she won’t be all that cold. shell kind of « make opportunities » for you to « create a situation »

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