Dating : Mixed Signals: First Date
I thought it went well. She was a chatter box, completely opened up to me about her family, her past relationships, and some of the things she’s gone through the last year. She even got emotional at one point explaining a rough patch she had this year, starting sobbing a little. It was a very intimate conversation.
It was also light and fun, we laughed a lot and made corny jokes. When I dropped her off, I kissed her. She kissed me pretty passionately (so much so that it took me back). She used tongue very quickly and I’m used to slower kisses. Our kissing seemed to be out of timing lol. Anyway, apart from that, I’d say it was a solid date.
Its the next day and I haven’t heard from her. We haven’t spoken since I dropped her off. Is this a bad sign? I’ve been on many dates and usually the girl will write me immediately after. From a woman’s perspective, what could be going on? Did I maybe overestimate her interest? From a male perspective, what do you think I should do next?
She sounds really into you, you should message her! She may be worried about coming off too strong or having been too vulnerable depending on if she was completely opening up to you while you didn’t as much, so she might be waiting to make sure you’re as interested in her. Sometimes if I think I’m more interested in someone than they are in me, I’ll let them make the next move. Or maybe she just thinks how she feels about you should be obvious, so she didn’t feel the need to follow up. Whatever the case, you should just message her!