Dating : Mixed signals
Hello Reddit, looking for some advice on where to go next
So I matched with this girl on Hinge, we started talking on Monday we have somewhat similar interests, like we’re also both trainee teachers and quite similar in general. My issue and reason for writing this is I have no idea if she’s interested or not. Conversations with her are mixed and her responses are a bit dead a lot of the time she is busy as she works a lot. The thing is with this she responds really quick sometimes even seconds after I’ve sent a message. I asked her if she wanted to meet up tomorrow, she told me a few days ago she finished at 2, so I asked her and she said she’ll let me know but it felt like one of those where you know we’re not meeting up tomorrow.
Thing is with what I’ve just said, she’s told me that she is looking for a relationship but she did recently get cheated on so I’m not sure how to proceed with this.
Pull back
Keep up what you’ve been doing, try to make her laugh and ask her out again. Be more direct when asking by giving a time, date and plan!
She’s probably unsure or not interested enough at this moment to meet. You can either continue talking to her without pressuring her to meet, or back away a bit and let her do some/more of the initiating.
Well if u just wanna shag, better find other birds. This girl just recently cheated on.
But if u really like her and u are someone serious then tell what u really want.