Dating : Most of my friends are married and or dating. They always want me to be the third wheel in outings
It is just annoying now. I don’t drink so they hope I will offer to be the designated driver. I don’t do drugs and I am super clean so other friends want me to be their roomies (hec no, while you guys just hookup every two seconds?) nahh. They are married,engaged, or about to be engaged. Some are single but we are all in different physical places. I just wanted to vent. My family has given up asking about a fella and I don’t tell them jack about it. If I meet another guy ok maybe at some point. Also side note to those who think I need to drink to be fun. Hec no. I make my own happiness. I don’t need to purchase false happiness (which is ironic).
It’s either do that or be alone forever. Be happy that they are still including you. Eventually they are going to move on with their lives.
If you try to force a relationship or meeting someone it rarely happens. What are your hobbies? What do you do for fun? the most meaningful relationships often start with a common interest
Happy cake yo, you’ll be fine. It sucks to be the third wheel but it sounds like you feel bad about yourself for not being in relationships like your friends. You should be able to still enjoy your friendships 🙁
Relationships are like farts: if you have to force it, it’s probably shit.
You dont sound like you’re much fun
Be yourself and create healthy boundaries. If you don’t feel like driving then say so, it’s okay. « I’ve been driving a lot lately and I’m not up for it tonight » or be honest and tell your friends how you feel – « since I’m the one who doesn’t drink I feel like I’m the permanent DD » As true friends, they will seek to understand and respect what you’re feeling. As for their relationship status, give it time. Honestly, it may seem like rainbows and unicorns in their lives now but just wait, in time you’ll be grateful to be single while they navigate challenges of couplehood. Don’t settle for just anyone. Keep being you, enjoy your activities and things will fall into place when the timing is right.
Wait are you a girl?
Unless you are really ugly you have a huge chance to get a bf if you start conversation first or just go online dating and dont only swipe on every 10/10