Dating : my current exp
So we met on OKC, then moved to kik and now discord. She’s really nice but she thinks I’m weird but in a good way I guess. I sent her pics of my new room I’m setting up at my new house. She says « Oh, I forgot you were in so many fandoms. » I’m not sure if that’s a good thing or a bad thing. From what I see of her online, and what she tells me about herself, she mostly plays League, gets high, fears the sims (OK I’m gonna say it it’s fucking stupid. She said she was a kid and she set the house on fire and now fears it and doesn’t want to fix it. but a fear is yours and I can’t tell you to or not get over it but I will say only you can do it).
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I asked her after we got settled at my new place (we being my family) if she wants to go out. She says « what if it’s awkward and we don’t like it and then it gets all weird and we don’t talk to each other and I ghost you? I’ve done that before »
« Ok then, lets not go on a DATE, lets just meet and have fun. »
So far 2 red flags. I told her I’m a furry but nothing serious. I do it all for fun. She said she’s not into it.
OK honestly, why is this girl even talking to me at this point if we have almost nothing in common?
After everything, I think I’m just gonna find someone else. I’m not gonna like dump her but I wont message her and see if she messages me. I’m not putting up with someone that only wants to get high, goto work, and play league.
she’s not a bad person, she just seems like your basic bitching boring person.
Ok, as nicely as i can be, you’re way too into yourself, with not much tolerance for others preferences.
How old are you guys? Because id be surprised if you were in your 20s yet.
Don’t ghost her, but waiting to see if she replies is fine as long as you write back. You two definitely don’t sound compatible because you yourself already sound like you’re very set in your ways. Which theres nothing wrong with.
But keeping it up to any degree unless you’re open to looking past her- for lack of better words- quirks, or compromising on what you truly find important or not, is not fair to either of you.
Hope this helps.
She is definitely insecure about meeting you, and to me, that is an issue. If I’m interested in someone, even a little bit, of course I want to meet them!
Perhaps she has decided that she just wants to keep things platonic and chat. And if you are interested in wanting more from potential mates, then I would recommend walking away.
It seems like your heart and gut are already becoming not interested. Follow it.
She basically say’s ‘let’s hook up’, and you say ‘no thank you ». Typical reddit.