Dating : My girlfriend broke up with me to explore other people.
I wasn’t her first, she has some prior experience before. However, she was mine. After a year of dating she wants to explore other people and wants to get back later.
Is it a dumb idea to get back together with her?
Don’t get back with her. Honestly, it will reinforce her behavior that it’s ok to leave you to explore others. Value yourself more.
Further more, when might she get back with you? After having sex with other guys and having her fun? No thanks.
For women « other people » translates to « one particular person I am crushing on right now ». I wouldn’t waste your time. Go out, have fun and when she reaches out hit her with a « new phone who dis? ».
Where is your pride dude?
Not at all. Go do your thing! Love, date, explore and so on. If you find her again in the future (assuming you’re even compatible at that point) and you want to pick things up again, fine.
The thing is you have to be okay with getting back with her. Not Reddit, Not your friends, Not your internet buddies in the subs. YOU.
What happened to you is not unusual, just means there’s some things you get to work on now.
Good luck.
>However, she was mine.
Just remember this: she isn’t yours, it’s just your turn.
Yes
Your dodging a bullet get away and block her
Getting back with her is a bad idea. If she hurt you by leaving you and if she comes crawling back to you, you could always just hit it and quit it a few times to get her back lmao.
This kind of seems like it could be a soft breakup. Like, she wants to split but didn’t feel like she could deliver the full blow to you all at once.
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However, if she’s serious, the only correct answer is « it depends ». More specifically, it depends on *you*. You already know what she wants. What do you want? Do you want to go out there and explore other people while she is and learn things about yourself and others along the way? Do you want to have more than 1 sexual partner in your life? Seems like there’s a lot of questions you should be asking yourself before you go seeking advice from idiots on reddit.
Very dumb idea.
> Is it a dumb idea to get back together with her?
Very. Have some self respect and dont entertain awful people like your ex.
Yes.
take the opportunity yourself to explore other people and find someone that actually appreciates you (i.e., not her)
Don‘t get back together with her. But i have to say atleast she is honest and not fucking other dudes behind your back.
Never get back with her.
You can always make her a fwb, but you should never make her your serious gf
I had a friend this happened to. They got back a couple of years later and now married.