Dating : My whole dating life feels stacked against me
Full explanation. I live in texas so sexual consent is 17. I’m homeschooled so I can’t meet people easily. And if I join anything for teens everyone would be too young. Also, I already created an online dating profile. I’m not getting clicks so that’s fun.
Full and honest I want a real relationship with someone. I look 14 or 15 so even If I did try to date people my age they wouldn’t attract let alone adults. It’s like my whole dating life is stacked against me. I get why but I still wish I can have someone attracted without thinking I’m gay…Oh yeah, I didn’t mention that. when someone does like me, they will usually think I’m gay. Like I have a high pitched voice and I don’t fit the criteria of a « real man ». What can I do about it? It just sucks.
Well how old are you?
Your voice will change and the rest you have control over,…so control it. You know as well as anyone what the characteristic are that imply someone is gay,…so don’t allow yourself to follow those characteristics. Be in control of your self rather than go whichever way the wind blows. Having self-control is very attractive to women once you get away from immature « school girls » just looking for the « cute guy ».
Online Dating is worthless IMO. Meet people through a social life. Check out [Meetup.com](https://Meetup.com) and see if there are any Meetup Groups in your area. Then get the book « How to be a 3% Man ».
If I was in Texas, I’d buy a motorcycle and drive it to horseback riding lessons for college aged people. Dates will be falling out of the barn rafters on top of you.